Often, people use the present tense to speak of dis-eases or symptoms (everything for me is a symptom of the counsciensness) that they experienced "I am nearsighted" "I am shy" or even "I have no luck"
Often, they even add a possesive word wich is even worst !
"My nearsightedness", "My Prespytia or Farsightedness", "My Cancer", My HIV or AIDS, "My HIV positivity", "My lack of chance", "My blockage" as if it v=bellonged to THEM ! And therefore "Their" will are done !
We have eyes to See ! Look better and behold !
In my workshops and books, I invite them to speak in the past of the pathologies "I have been nearsighted" "I have been shy" or again "I did not have any luck" wich changes EVERYTHING for the person saying it and therefore, the door is open into a different future !
The words are for me very creative !
If one says "FIRST, THERE WAS THE WORD" is no "Chance" for me !
But for that, do a class wih me or read my books !
You all have eyes to see and it was right in front of your eyes !
"That those who have "Eyes to see" see, "look" and "undestand"....